Tuesday, May 2, 2017

SURVIVING THE SEASON-IN-BETWEEN (4)

For everyone there will be a time when you will have critical challenges determining whether you want to go back to where you left or whether you want to hold on to your dreams. That season is called the season in between.

My friends, between what you are aspiring for and where you are right now there is a season in between. It is usually not a pleasurable moment in people’s life. It is characterized with fear of the unknown, fear of the unseen. Nothing really unsettles a man like a future that is unknown despite giving it all. You are investing everything, giving all your best, you are disciplined, consistent, committed yet there is little or no result for it. Nothing can be so pathetic like having to watch a loved one suffer an ailment that no one is sure he or she can survive yet you have spent all, prayed all along the while, you have hoped and supported, done absolutely everything known to you but you are not sure he or she can make it. You could also have a season in between in your relationship or marriage. You have given all that is to be given but your husband’s head seems to be going in another direction, he has turned to the worst pain in your chest. Well, yes it may just be your season in between.
No matter what your own season is, the first survival trick in the season-in-between is to believe. Your belief is not belief if there are no obstacles.  Belief has failed when there are no obstacles. True belief is known when it is against all odds. Nobody is interested with how long you have been disappointed, they want to know if you still have something else in you that make you believe.
Ralph Waldo Emerson, America’s 20th century acclaimed wisest man said “nobody has achieved anything tangible outside believing”. The problem with a lot of people is that they treat their faith as optional. Some of you have lost hope simply because you haven’t been told that it is easier to believe than not to believe. The cost of not believing is far higher than the cost of believing. What comfort or pleasure will it give you if you choose to throw in the towel? If you honestly ask yourself this question you will realize that it pays to believe. It is going to be tough but you just have to believe. Yes, you have believed for years and nothing has changed, why now? When the battle gets fiercest, somebody is about to run out of ammunitions. When the challenge gets bad, you have to understand that a party in the battle is contemplating giving in and if I am going to be sincere with you, that person should not be you. So every time you are going through a tough season, you must remember that a party in this challenge is about to give in and so it’s either you choose to give in or your situation bows to you, so you have got to develop the courage to start again.
You are near breakthrough than breakdown; you are much closer than you can think. Hold on a little longer, believe with all your heart. Trust a little longer. You have given up on love, love one more time.
Remember, the first survival trick is to believe one more time. Nothing shall be impossible to them who believe!

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